All babies have their own timetable, but you can watch for certain developments in your 10-month-old. Celebrate with your baby as she reaches or nears these milestones.
Cognitive
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Understands how to use many objects (cuddling a stuffed toy, shaking a rattle, putting a cup to lips)
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Understands object permanence well (will look for an object that’s hidden because she knows it’s there)
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Expanding attention span, from two to three minutes at 8 months to 15 minutes at 12 months
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Attracted to novelty (new toys, objects)
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Explores playthings in new ways (touching, banging, dropping)
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Increasingly shows memory of recent events
Motor
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Rolls over quickly and suddenly
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Has good accuracy picking up objects with fingers (the pincer grasp)
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Getting better at releasing objects from grasp
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Points and pokes with index finger
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Feeds self, though messily
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May drink from cup
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Sits up unsupported for long periods
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May pull herself to standing
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Stands with support (holding onto fingers or furniture)
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Crawls up stairs
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May take first steps or even walk (though most don’t yet)
Communication
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Recognizes own name
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Understands many things said to her
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Shakes head or frowns to express “no” or as a response to “no”
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Holds out arms to be picked up
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Babbles in long groups of consonant and vowel sounds, like “tata upupup ba ba ba!”
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Babbles using the cadences and inflections of real conversation
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May use “Ma ma” and “Da da” to refer specifically to parents
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May say other early words, though probably not with good pronunciation (“ba ba” for “bottle,” “mok” for “milk”)
Social
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Accurately mimics expressions and sounds made by others
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Enjoys being around other babies (but can’t yet play together)
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Enjoys watching older children
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Watches for your reactions (to banging or laughing)
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Stranger anxiety (shyness around strangers) continues
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Shows separation anxiety (crying or showing distress when you leave the room), which peaks between 10 and 18 months
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May wave good-bye